Swingers and Threesomes

Look on any swinger site and you will find that a lot of the profiles by couples indicate that they are looking for another female in addition to a couple. Both the man and female love the thought of a threesome with another female. A majority of swinging females seem to be at the very least bi-curious so the thought of a female is a sensual experience.

And of course it's hard to find a man who hasn’t fantasized about a threesome.The problem is, for most, that they don’t know how to go about finding somebody to join them. The first thing to remember is that you need to know beforehand exactly who you’re looking for. If, for example, your wife isn’t interested in sex with another woman, there’s little point in answering ads from bi-sexual women. Similarly, if you’re a bi-sexual guy, you’ll want to find ads placed by couples who are looking for somebody who will service them both.

One thing that you should recognize is that you and thousand others are looking for that elusive single female for a threesome. In your profile and your responses, be as specific as possible as to what you are looking for and what you would like from the single female or male. We have been fortunate to have had many threesomes and they have all been great experiences.

When it comes to the two main types of threesomes, remember the following:

FFM: this means two females and a male and is the most common type of threesome. In most cases the females will be bi so it’s probably safe to assume so if nothing else is mentioned. It’s always worth asking to be sure, though.

FMM: you’ve probably guessed that this one means one female and two men. Although not as common as FFM, it’s a whole lot of fun and well worth experimenting with. The guys don’t have to be bi and in these cases, if they are they probably WILL mention it. Even if you’re mostly into FFM, you’ll probably find that most women will be only too pleased to be serviced by two guys. In addition, a lot of male partners enjoy watching their wives/partners with another male.